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Jul 2nd, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
With summer just ahead, it looms for some little ones. Summer camp can be a frightening new experience for young children and brings on separation anxiety not unlike first day at school jitters.
Tags: Anxiety, Children, Frightening, Parent, Prepare, Separation anxiety, Suggestions, Summer camp Posted in In The News |
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Jun 29th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
I was undiagnosed, but in retrospect clearly diagnosable, with depression from age 12. For much of my youth I “other-reflected” rather than self-reflected. I made the worst attitudes of others my own. I would say that I hated the way others viewed my depression but I really just hated myself.
Tags: Acceptance, Anger, Anxiety, Attitudes, Beliefs, Character, Children, Conscious, Depression, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, Feel, Feelings, Frustration, Knowledge, Learn, Negative Feelings, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Personality, Perspective, Questions, Reactions, Reactive, Recognize Feelings, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Awareness, Skills, Success Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Mar 9th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Lead Article, Reviews
My oldest son is recovering from back surgery. My daughter is anxious about not meeting up with us in heaven after we die. My youngest son is awaiting anxiously to hear about his medical school applications and my middle son is stressing about the amount of school work on his plate. I admit that enmeshing [...]
Tags: Anxious, Back surgery, Better, Children, Die, Enmesh, Firmness, Great parent, Joe Rich, Looking long, Love, Not perfect, Parent, Parenting books, Parenting: The Long Journey, Perspective, Power, Respect, Stress, Successful Parenting, Truth Posted in Lead Article, Reviews |
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Jan 7th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The Classroom, Lead Article
Children from different home languages are the fastest growing segment of the preschool population right now across the United States. Chances are most English-speaking children will meet children who speak other languages in their neighborhoods, schools and childcare. We can all benefit from fostering attitudes of tolerance and friendship.
Tags: Adults, Attitudes, Bilingual, Body Language, Children, Communication, Diversity, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empathy, Experience, Friends, Identity, Languages, Learn, Relationships, Research, School, Self-Confidence, Shy, Teach, Teachers, Tolerance, Understand Posted in In The Classroom, Lead Article |
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Jan 6th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
Mackenzie Carpenter of the Washington Post writes a thought provoking article entitled, “Clashing Data Bombards New Parents As Old-School Ideas Fall By The Wayside.”
Giving readers food for thought, Carpenter talks about parents over-reliance on parent advice. She cleverly points out how advice and parenting gurus change from generation to generation, leading us to wonder at the validity of any of it.
Tags: Advice, Anxiety, Children, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, Feelings, Human, Individual Needs, Learn, Mirroring, Old Ideas, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Parents, Perspective, Relationships, Tre, Trend, Understand Posted in In The News |
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Jan 5th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
We all know how uncomfortable tantrums in a grocery line-up can feel! Read “”Whale Done Parenting”: What Parents Can Learn from Sea World Trainers” by Liz Hoffman of chicagoparent.com and learn what we can learn from sea mammals!
Tags: Behaviour, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Information, Learn, Mammals, Parenting, Tantrums Posted in In The News |
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Jan 4th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
My daughter Gabi has been at school for 5 months now. I finally got around to asking her homeroom teacher whether I could share on mychildfeels.com her wonderful introductory letter she gave students on the first day of class. This is truly a letter worth sharing.
Tags: Angry, Children, Comfortable, Elementary school, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empathy, Feelings, Friends, Fun, Happy, Humanness, Learn, Love, Motivation, Nervous, Perspective, Proud, Resilience, Safe, School, Shy, Students, Success, Teachers, Unkind Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Dec 8th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
We’ve all been there and often don’t know how we arrived. But one thing is certain, no parent enjoys being in a power struggle with their child. What brings us to this point?
Parenting is not a one way street. Two separate personalities interact to hopefully produce a loving parent-child relationship. Becoming a good parent is as much about us as it is about our kids.
Tags: Anger, Apologize, Behaviour, Children, Communicate, Conscious, Emotions, Empathy, Feelings, Issues, Mistakes, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Personality, Power Struggles, Problems, Process, Reactive, Recognize Feelings, Relationships, Self-Acknowledgement, Self-Awareness, Skills, Soft Parenting, Teenagers, Therapy Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Nov 25th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
A recent article in the globegazette.com entitled “Emma, Ethan Lead Iowa’s Baby Name List” by Rod Boshart discusses the most popular baby names today. And also the anxiety that parents experience when they have to come up with a name! In days gone by your name was simply your name, the word by which to [...]
Tags: Anxiety, Baby, Children, Feelings, Future, Happiness, Name, Parenting, Parents, Resilience, Self-Awareness, Self-Confidence, Self-Esteem, Strong, Trendy, Unique Posted in In The News |
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Nov 24th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
In this wonderful blog post entitled “Permission to Feel,” Coach Nancy points out that parents sometimes curb positive emotions like excitement as well as the more painful ones. All humans have feelings, she says, and by not allowing them to be felt we become unable to process them in healthy ways.
Tags: Change, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Excitement, Feelings, Healthy, Negative Feelings, Parenting, Positive Feelings, Self-Awareness, Skills, Success, Understand Posted in In The News |
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