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This Emotional Life on PBS

Oct 21st, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

Where have I been? I was really upset to read an article by Kristi Helm in the Seattle Times entitled, “Paul Allen – Conceived PBS Series Looks at Human Emotions“. Too late! I appear to have missed it. It is a three part series talking about the secret to happiness. The series examines the science [...]



Guest Blog: Should We Protect Our Kids From Difficult Situations?

Sep 15th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

Raising children is not easy, especially in difficult times. It is during these times that honesty becomes so important. Say what you mean and mean what you say because children “hear” our non-verbal communication as loudly as our verbal conversation. Shara suggests that rather than shield our children during times like these that we engage them and teach them coping skills to help them become successful adults.



Separation Anxiety In Summer Camps

Jul 2nd, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

With summer just ahead, it looms for some little ones. Summer camp can be a frightening new experience for young children and brings on separation anxiety not unlike first day at school jitters.



The Me In Parenting

Jun 29th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

I was undiagnosed, but in retrospect clearly diagnosable, with depression from age 12. For much of my youth I “other-reflected” rather than self-reflected. I made the worst attitudes of others my own. I would say that I hated the way others viewed my depression but I really just hated myself.



Joe Rich’s “Parenting: The Long Journey”

Mar 9th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Lead Article, Reviews

My oldest son is recovering from back surgery. My daughter is anxious about not meeting up with us in heaven after we die. My youngest son is awaiting anxiously to hear about his medical school applications and my middle son is stressing about the amount of school work on his plate. I admit that enmeshing [...]



Guest Blog: Helping Young Children Who Speak Different Languages Become Friends

Jan 7th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The Classroom, Lead Article

Children from different home languages are the fastest growing segment of the preschool population right now across the United States. Chances are most English-speaking children will meet children who speak other languages in their neighborhoods, schools and childcare. We can all benefit from fostering attitudes of tolerance and friendship.



Too Much Parenting Advice?

Jan 6th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

Mackenzie Carpenter of the Washington Post writes a thought provoking article entitled, “Clashing Data Bombards New Parents As Old-School Ideas Fall By The Wayside.”

Giving readers food for thought, Carpenter talks about parents over-reliance on parent advice. She cleverly points out how advice and parenting gurus change from generation to generation, leading us to wonder at the validity of any of it.



Learning from Whales

Jan 5th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

We all know how uncomfortable tantrums in a grocery line-up can feel! Read “”Whale Done Parenting”: What Parents Can Learn from Sea World Trainers” by Liz Hoffman of chicagoparent.com and learn what we can learn from sea mammals!



A Wonderful Letter to Grade 5 Students

Jan 4th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

My daughter Gabi has been at school for 5 months now. I finally got around to asking her homeroom teacher whether I could share on mychildfeels.com her wonderful introductory letter she gave students on the first day of class. This is truly a letter worth sharing.



No Place For Power Struggles In Parenting

Dec 8th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

We’ve all been there and often don’t know how we arrived. But one thing is certain, no parent enjoys being in a power struggle with their child. What brings us to this point?

Parenting is not a one way street. Two separate personalities interact to hopefully produce a loving parent-child relationship. Becoming a good parent is as much about us as it is about our kids.