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Let Go of Your Past by Making It Count

Oct 15th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

I felt honored to be interviewed by Anamarie Seidel, co-author with her husband Cory, of the upcoming book, “What You Don’t Fix … Your Kids Inherit.” Thank you Anamarie for making me think! The premise of this book is as the title suggests: we need to commit to personal growth during our lifetime if we [...]



Humour and Emotional Intelligence

Oct 5th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

What does it mean to have a sense of humour and where does this fit into emotional intelligence? Many successful people have a twinkle in their eyes. They often are able to laugh good-naturedly with others and will often laugh at themselves. However, humour is one of those characteristics that so easily can turn from “feel good” to “feel bad.”



Understanding Anxiety

Oct 5th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

As a person familiar with anxiety and all its ramifications I read Robin Marantz Henig‘s article “Understanding the Anxious Mind” in the New York Times with great interest. Henig primarily focuses on Jerome Kagan‘s longitudinal study beginning in 1989, which looked at whether babies were easily upset or not when exposed to new things. They [...]



Book Review: Connected Parenting by Jennifer Kolari

Sep 24th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Lead Article, Reviews

There are so many wonderful things about Jennifer Kolari’s book “Connected Parenting” that I hardly know where to begin.

Kolari understands that even when parents feel despair, overwhelmed, angry or feel guilty because they no longer like their child, that these feelings are just a mask for fear and confusion. Kolari never blames parents who have lost their way and find themselves in a vortex of negativity.



Behind The Face of Peek-a-Boo

Sep 22nd, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

Jennifer Kolari, author of her recently released parenting book “Connected Parenting“, posted a blog worth reading on justthefactsbaby.com. The blog entitled “And you thought you were just playing peek-a-boo” states that parents playing the age old peek-a-boo with their baby are in fact creating something quite wonderful. This “mirroring” interaction soothes and calms our baby [...]



Loving Your Kids and Letting Go

Sep 21st, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

Check out a lovely article in the NCAdvertiser.com written by Julie Butler Evans entitled “Parenting from the trenches – Learning the life lesson of letting go.” Julie beautifully describes the dilemma that many parents face. She says that knowing when and how to draw the line between holding on to our kids and letting go [...]



Guest Blog: Campaign to STOMP Out Bullying by Sue Scheff

Sep 18th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Bullying, Lead Article

Love Our Children USA recently announced that bullying and teasing is at the top of kids’ issues at schools, and with school now open, parents, teachers and school administrators must take caution and sensitivity in handling these issues. Childhood should be a time filled with wonder and joy, but the reality for many kids and teens is often much different.



Does High Emotional Intelligence Predict Success?

Sep 14th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

Emotional intelligence (EQ) is a person’s ability to identify, organize and act on their feelings and the feelings of others in a healthy and productive way. Does increasing an individual’s emotional intelligence correlate to a higher probability of long-term personal success and happiness?



Children’s Literature and Emotional Intelligence

Sep 11th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

Although concepts of emotional intelligence are evident in literature as far back as the early 1900’s, Daniel Goleman was the first to popularize this idea in 1995 with his book “Emotional Intelligence”. The belief that improving emotional intelligence can improve overall success in life grabbed the attention of the western world.



For Many Children, Back to School Means Facing Bullies

Sep 9th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

I read a great article in examiner.com entitled “Parenting Intervention for School Bullying,” written by Kara Tamanini (@KidTherapist). Our kids are back at school and bullying is something that, unfortunately, many have to face. The more that parents familiarize themselves with all aspects of bullying, the greater chance we have to diminish it’s tentacles. Some [...]