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Behaviour ’
Oct 18th, 2010 |
By jenniferkolari |
Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article
My son just turned 4 and we have recently discovered that he may be hard of hearing. There has been a lot of activity lately around him regarding this discovery. He has always been a bit of a hot tempered boy but just this past week it has seemed to escalate to him getting in your face and growling, stomping feet and throwing things. Could this be due to all the “medical” issues going on around him lately? What is the best way to handle this?
Tags: Activity, Behaviour, Calm, Children, Communication, Consistent, Empathy, Experience, Frustration, Hearing Loss, Issues, Jennifer Kolari, Lecture, Love, Parenting, Quiet, Shame, Temper, Words Posted in Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article |
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Jul 25th, 2010 |
By rickieglickman |
Category: How This Grandparent Feels, Lead Article
This grandparent feels that one cannot and should not force their grandchild to eat, BUT encouraging them can be fun. In a previous article, “Disciplining Your Grandchildren Can Be ‘Tricky’“, I shared some tricks I had up my sleeve regarding that topic. Now, I have some tried and true ‘recipes’ that I have used to [...]
Tags: Batman Spaghetti, Behaviour, Children, Clever recipes, Eat, Experience, Fussy eating, Grandparent, Recipes, Spiderman grilled cheese, Superman scrambled eggs Posted in How This Grandparent Feels, Lead Article |
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May 6th, 2010 |
By jenniferkolari |
Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article
Hi Jennifer, I’m struggling to deal with a particular behaviour that my five and a half year old, Chandra, has been displaying. For the last three months or so, when she gets upset about something, she says she doesn’t like herself and starts to smack her head. This is very upsetting to me and even [...]
Tags: Acceptance, Advice, Aggression, Anger, Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Feelings, Jennifer Kolari, Love, Meditation, Self-Hitting Posted in Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article |
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Jan 5th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
We all know how uncomfortable tantrums in a grocery line-up can feel! Read “”Whale Done Parenting”: What Parents Can Learn from Sea World Trainers” by Liz Hoffman of chicagoparent.com and learn what we can learn from sea mammals!
Tags: Behaviour, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Information, Learn, Mammals, Parenting, Tantrums Posted in In The News |
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Dec 8th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
We’ve all been there and often don’t know how we arrived. But one thing is certain, no parent enjoys being in a power struggle with their child. What brings us to this point?
Parenting is not a one way street. Two separate personalities interact to hopefully produce a loving parent-child relationship. Becoming a good parent is as much about us as it is about our kids.
Tags: Anger, Apologize, Behaviour, Children, Communicate, Conscious, Emotions, Empathy, Feelings, Issues, Mistakes, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Personality, Power Struggles, Problems, Process, Reactive, Recognize Feelings, Relationships, Self-Acknowledgement, Self-Awareness, Skills, Soft Parenting, Teenagers, Therapy Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Nov 23rd, 2009 |
By jenniferkolari |
Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article
All of us have anxiety – it is an important emotion.
We need it to survive, stay safe and make good choices. Some of us are hardwired to be more anxious than others. As a therapist, I feel that more and more children are struggling with anxiety for many reasons and many parents struggle with how to help their kids cope.
Tags: Afraid, Anger, Anxiety, Behaviour, Brain, Calm, Children, Choices, Doctor, Emotions, Empathy, Experience, Fears, Feelings, Frustration, Jennifer Kolari, Parenting, Parents, Resilience, Struggle, Success, Suggestions, Temper, Understand, Worry Posted in Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article |
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Nov 18th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
Understanding respect and boundaries is crucial to parenting. What does this mean? When I was growing up, respect meant one thing only – how we spoke to and behaved towards our elders. Today, I have a very different understanding of these words.
Tags: Acceptance, Behaviour, Boundaries, Challenge, Children, Communication, Defensive, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Experience, Failure, Feelings, Future, Happiness, Individual Needs, Lesson, Parenting, Personality, Prescriptive, Protective, Resilience, Respect, Reticence, Security, Self-Confidence, Sharing, Struggle, Success, Take Risks, Understand, Understanding Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Nov 6th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
I loved an article written by Paul Dalton in articlescollections.com called “Happiness – Just How Do You Do It?”
Dalton says that adults refer to the “pursuit of happiness” or “I’ll be happy when…” Happiness for most is conditional and placed in the future. He says that we even refer to ourselves as the human race implying that we are chasing something.
Tags: Adults, Behaviour, Child, Children, Conditional, Emotional Intelligence, Entitlement, Expectations, Feelings, Happiness, Happy, Interaction, Pain, Pursuit of Happiness, Resilience, Skills Posted in In The News |
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Nov 5th, 2009 |
By rickieglickman |
Category: How This Grandparent Feels, Lead Article
How in the world does a grandparent discipline their young, adorable and brilliant grandchildren? This grandparent feels it is important to have a trick up your sleeve. In this blog, I will share one of my favorites.
Tags: Awful, Behaviour, Brothers, Children, Compliment, Discipline, Experience, Fighting, Fought, Freedom, Grandchildren, Grandma, Grandparent, Grandson, Hurt, Journey, Parenting, Poor Children, Preschool, Problem, Problem Solving, Sad, Sharing, Shock, Story, Trick, Ugly, Upset Posted in How This Grandparent Feels, Lead Article |
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Nov 4th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
My sister and I were talking the other day about how difficult we find it to NOT be helicopter parents. So naturally, this article at nytimes.com by Amanda M. Fairbanks called “Letting Your Grad Student Go” grabbed my attention.
Tags: Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Education, Family, Future, Generation, Graduate School, Happiness, Helicopter, Hovering, Letting Go, Parenting, Realism, Relationships, Resilience, Self-Confidence, Success, Understanding, University Posted in In The News |
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