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Emotional Intelligence ’
Jun 29th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
I was undiagnosed, but in retrospect clearly diagnosable, with depression from age 12. For much of my youth I “other-reflected” rather than self-reflected. I made the worst attitudes of others my own. I would say that I hated the way others viewed my depression but I really just hated myself.
Tags: Acceptance, Anger, Anxiety, Attitudes, Beliefs, Character, Children, Conscious, Depression, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, Feel, Feelings, Frustration, Knowledge, Learn, Negative Feelings, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Personality, Perspective, Questions, Reactions, Reactive, Recognize Feelings, Reflection, Relationships, Self-Awareness, Skills, Success Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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May 6th, 2010 |
By jenniferkolari |
Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article
Hi Jennifer, I’m struggling to deal with a particular behaviour that my five and a half year old, Chandra, has been displaying. For the last three months or so, when she gets upset about something, she says she doesn’t like herself and starts to smack her head. This is very upsetting to me and even [...]
Tags: Acceptance, Advice, Aggression, Anger, Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Feelings, Jennifer Kolari, Love, Meditation, Self-Hitting Posted in Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article |
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Jan 7th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The Classroom, Lead Article
Children from different home languages are the fastest growing segment of the preschool population right now across the United States. Chances are most English-speaking children will meet children who speak other languages in their neighborhoods, schools and childcare. We can all benefit from fostering attitudes of tolerance and friendship.
Tags: Adults, Attitudes, Bilingual, Body Language, Children, Communication, Diversity, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empathy, Experience, Friends, Identity, Languages, Learn, Relationships, Research, School, Self-Confidence, Shy, Teach, Teachers, Tolerance, Understand Posted in In The Classroom, Lead Article |
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Jan 6th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
Mackenzie Carpenter of the Washington Post writes a thought provoking article entitled, “Clashing Data Bombards New Parents As Old-School Ideas Fall By The Wayside.”
Giving readers food for thought, Carpenter talks about parents over-reliance on parent advice. She cleverly points out how advice and parenting gurus change from generation to generation, leading us to wonder at the validity of any of it.
Tags: Advice, Anxiety, Children, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Empathy, Feelings, Human, Individual Needs, Learn, Mirroring, Old Ideas, Parent-Child Relationship, Parenting, Parents, Perspective, Relationships, Tre, Trend, Understand Posted in In The News |
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Jan 5th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
We all know how uncomfortable tantrums in a grocery line-up can feel! Read “”Whale Done Parenting”: What Parents Can Learn from Sea World Trainers” by Liz Hoffman of chicagoparent.com and learn what we can learn from sea mammals!
Tags: Behaviour, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Information, Learn, Mammals, Parenting, Tantrums Posted in In The News |
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Jan 4th, 2010 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
My daughter Gabi has been at school for 5 months now. I finally got around to asking her homeroom teacher whether I could share on mychildfeels.com her wonderful introductory letter she gave students on the first day of class. This is truly a letter worth sharing.
Tags: Angry, Children, Comfortable, Elementary school, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empathy, Feelings, Friends, Fun, Happy, Humanness, Learn, Love, Motivation, Nervous, Perspective, Proud, Resilience, Safe, School, Shy, Students, Success, Teachers, Unkind Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Nov 24th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
In this wonderful blog post entitled “Permission to Feel,” Coach Nancy points out that parents sometimes curb positive emotions like excitement as well as the more painful ones. All humans have feelings, she says, and by not allowing them to be felt we become unable to process them in healthy ways.
Tags: Change, Children, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Excitement, Feelings, Healthy, Negative Feelings, Parenting, Positive Feelings, Self-Awareness, Skills, Success, Understand Posted in In The News |
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Nov 18th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article
Understanding respect and boundaries is crucial to parenting. What does this mean? When I was growing up, respect meant one thing only – how we spoke to and behaved towards our elders. Today, I have a very different understanding of these words.
Tags: Acceptance, Behaviour, Boundaries, Challenge, Children, Communication, Defensive, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Experience, Failure, Feelings, Future, Happiness, Individual Needs, Lesson, Parenting, Personality, Prescriptive, Protective, Resilience, Respect, Reticence, Security, Self-Confidence, Sharing, Struggle, Success, Take Risks, Understand, Understanding Posted in Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article |
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Nov 6th, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
I loved an article written by Paul Dalton in articlescollections.com called “Happiness – Just How Do You Do It?”
Dalton says that adults refer to the “pursuit of happiness” or “I’ll be happy when…” Happiness for most is conditional and placed in the future. He says that we even refer to ourselves as the human race implying that we are chasing something.
Tags: Adults, Behaviour, Child, Children, Conditional, Emotional Intelligence, Entitlement, Expectations, Feelings, Happiness, Happy, Interaction, Pain, Pursuit of Happiness, Resilience, Skills Posted in In The News |
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Nov 2nd, 2009 |
By marshajacobson |
Category: In The News
The Huntsville Times published an article on November 1, 2009 called, “Better Parenting Can Save The World,” by Judi Light Hopson, Emma H. Hopson, R.N., and Ted Hagen Ph.D. This article, short and sweet, says it all. I wanted to reinforce the message. Marsha Jacobson is author of “Boom… Boom… Boom…: A Story to Raise [...]
Tags: Education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Family, Future, Government, Love, Parenting, Relationships, School, Stress, Teach, Work Posted in In The News |
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