Posts Tagged ‘ Empathy ’

Ask Jennifer Kolari: Hearing Loss and Tantrums

Oct 18th, 2010 | By jenniferkolari | Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article

My son just turned 4 and we have recently discovered that he may be hard of hearing. There has been a lot of activity lately around him regarding this discovery. He has always been a bit of a hot tempered boy but just this past week it has seemed to escalate to him getting in your face and growling, stomping feet and throwing things. Could this be due to all the “medical” issues going on around him lately? What is the best way to handle this?



Guest Blog: Should We Protect Our Kids From Difficult Situations?

Sep 15th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

Raising children is not easy, especially in difficult times. It is during these times that honesty becomes so important. Say what you mean and mean what you say because children “hear” our non-verbal communication as loudly as our verbal conversation. Shara suggests that rather than shield our children during times like these that we engage them and teach them coping skills to help them become successful adults.



The Me In Parenting

Jun 29th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

I was undiagnosed, but in retrospect clearly diagnosable, with depression from age 12. For much of my youth I “other-reflected” rather than self-reflected. I made the worst attitudes of others my own. I would say that I hated the way others viewed my depression but I really just hated myself.



Guest Blog: Helping Young Children Who Speak Different Languages Become Friends

Jan 7th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The Classroom, Lead Article

Children from different home languages are the fastest growing segment of the preschool population right now across the United States. Chances are most English-speaking children will meet children who speak other languages in their neighborhoods, schools and childcare. We can all benefit from fostering attitudes of tolerance and friendship.



Too Much Parenting Advice?

Jan 6th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: In The News

Mackenzie Carpenter of the Washington Post writes a thought provoking article entitled, “Clashing Data Bombards New Parents As Old-School Ideas Fall By The Wayside.”

Giving readers food for thought, Carpenter talks about parents over-reliance on parent advice. She cleverly points out how advice and parenting gurus change from generation to generation, leading us to wonder at the validity of any of it.



A Wonderful Letter to Grade 5 Students

Jan 4th, 2010 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

My daughter Gabi has been at school for 5 months now. I finally got around to asking her homeroom teacher whether I could share on mychildfeels.com her wonderful introductory letter she gave students on the first day of class. This is truly a letter worth sharing.



No Place For Power Struggles In Parenting

Dec 8th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

We’ve all been there and often don’t know how we arrived. But one thing is certain, no parent enjoys being in a power struggle with their child. What brings us to this point?

Parenting is not a one way street. Two separate personalities interact to hopefully produce a loving parent-child relationship. Becoming a good parent is as much about us as it is about our kids.



Ask Jennifer Kolari: Childhood Anxiety

Nov 23rd, 2009 | By jenniferkolari | Category: Ask Jennifer Kolari, Lead Article

All of us have anxiety – it is an important emotion.

We need it to survive, stay safe and make good choices. Some of us are hardwired to be more anxious than others. As a therapist, I feel that more and more children are struggling with anxiety for many reasons and many parents struggle with how to help their kids cope.



Humour and Emotional Intelligence

Oct 5th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Emotional Intelligence, Lead Article

What does it mean to have a sense of humour and where does this fit into emotional intelligence? Many successful people have a twinkle in their eyes. They often are able to laugh good-naturedly with others and will often laugh at themselves. However, humour is one of those characteristics that so easily can turn from “feel good” to “feel bad.”



Book Review: Connected Parenting by Jennifer Kolari

Sep 24th, 2009 | By marshajacobson | Category: Lead Article, Reviews

There are so many wonderful things about Jennifer Kolari’s book “Connected Parenting” that I hardly know where to begin.

Kolari understands that even when parents feel despair, overwhelmed, angry or feel guilty because they no longer like their child, that these feelings are just a mask for fear and confusion. Kolari never blames parents who have lost their way and find themselves in a vortex of negativity.